There’s always one or two or three in the guild, and these guys always tend to try to get more attention than necessary. They feel that the whole guild revolves or should revolve around them and they think they know it all. They also befriend the higher ups to garner more stability to get positions as officers and such because they believe they can make a difference in the guild when they like the power to kick people they do not like.
This is actually taken up quiet a stir-up lately since we returned from Blizzcon although the attitude of this all was present when a former guildmate returned from leaving the Alliance side to join the Horde side to get away from someone he disliked that was in the guild. Now that person doesn’t play WoW anymore sold his account and moved on with his life there is a void left missing for this former guildmate now back in the guild. He apparently has no one to blame useless crap on, and his need to run into this person in Baradin Pennisula while he was on the horde side so he can kill him was never fullfilled. He has this grudge that never got satisfied and now is taking it out on anyone he can.
Of course while he was on the horde side he became somewhat of a hardcore raider even though he tried to convince people that the guild was just a casual guild. He apparently got kicked out of that guild when his buddy and him took something that should have been between the two into guild chat. Mostly complaining about progression in the guild and raids and making a big highschool drama out of it. His buddy apparently quit the guild or something to that sort and he went on the guild Ventrilo to explain himself and the officers told him that they should’ve kept that in whispers instead of bringing it into the guild chat. Which was obviously true and much more courteous, but knowing the guy he’s not very courteous when it comes to other people’s feelings lately. So the officers kicked him out of that guild and he was left wandering for a day or two asked my husband if he could come back. My husband allowed it cause he was being a good friend, and then he came back.
Then left again to another server for another guild and that apparently did not work out for him and then came back to our server and rejoined the guild with most of his characters. All goes right with the world the guild is in a peaceful environment and then here is when the attitude comes in. I ask him to join a FL pug that I frequent and he says sure and joins. Then leaves in the last attempt of the Beth fight where we knew we could get her down cause of the group makeup and such. The reason for his leaving the group was cause the raid leader did not take his advice on how to do the fight. Pretty much throughout the whole entire run he was trying to tell the raid leader how to do the fight when the RL has done it as many times as he has if not more on another character. He started acting like a primadonna, and before the last attempt on Beth he left the group and in guild started saying that he couldn’t take the RL’s explaination cause the RL kept saying “ummmm” after every sentence.
Then started offering to lead raids cause he said he could explain better than anyone else about boss fights. Now granted he has the knowledge of the boss fights and all his explanation skills aren’t very clear. He always ends up confusing everyone and makes it take longer for us to get the fight started because we have to re-explain fights to simplify the shit he just said. Even though he says he’s simplifying the fight so people can understand, even though in his head he thinks it’s simplifying it, he really hasn’t.
He has also asked my husband if he can be officer again, in which my reply is, no. My husband’s response and rational thinking is, “we have a whole new group of people in the guild. It is not the same guild members as it was when we were raiding during BC and Wrath. These people do not know who you are or who you were so pretty much everyone is starting from scratch.”
The guy didn’t take it so likely, and every other week seems to ask again if he can get his officership back. One week he did a guild Zandalari group and before they did the last boss he kicked one of the guildies out who was trying to get points for gear to heal. Stated that he didn’t think that guildie could heal through the last boss. Honestly if you made it to the last boss with that person healing why not give it a try? Nope from reports that’s not how he wanted and from reports it was stated that he said “as officer of the guild he did what is best.”
Seriously holding a position that you don’t actually have control of over the other guildies head in a heroic dungeon run? Then a guildie dps or I believe she was a tank at that time left the group and it was left with the three guildies. Then he left the group cause he wasn’t going to go searching for another two people to fill the spots to finish the dungeon. Obviously when things don’t go his way he leaves groups or logs off or go play on his horde. We then get messages saying that things are happening in the guild and this was during our trip to Blizzcon and then when my husband logs on he states that this is his vacation let us have it and told everyone to get along. Everyone in the guild seem to have agreed and asked how was the convention, but no the drama queen can’t stand that he wasn’t being taken seriously emails my husband all screenshots of the chat and then tries to explains himself.
After the Blizzcon trip I started up the raid again which is good and all we hardly ever had a solid core group to do a full 10 man guild raid. We always have two friends, from outside the guild help us fill our raids cause they want to see the guild progress, and in the process get some gear for their alts, since their mains are raiding FL and I love them for helping us out. This day my husband was sick and we ended up having three tanks in the group so my husband decided to dps or rather I decided that for him cause his dps is better than our other two tanks dps. Plus one of them didn’t have dps gear. So he logs on his DPS the guy logs on after I filled the raid with 8 guildies and our two regular fill-ins that comes helps us every week and the guy knows that these two come in every week to help us out. Well my husband says he’s ready for an invite I invited him, then the guy jumped in saying he’s ready as well but he didn’t sign up on the calendar. I told him that it’s filled up, and the last spot was my husbands.
So yeah that didn’t go too well with him and he messages my husband saying that he will leave his spot open for pugs only since I value pugs over guildies. At that point I didn’t know he had said that until after the raid when my husband came into the room and said that the guy was pissed off that he didn’t get to come to the raid. The guy also stopped signing up for the raid about a month ago and never logged on whenever we had raid time scheduled. Nor did he ever tell me that he wanted to go or even signed up on the calendar. I even posted it on the MoTD to check the calendar for raid schedules and sign up if you are able to join in on the raid days. HE… NEVER… DID. As he probably expected to have a saved spot every time I suppose but why should I do that? There were people already signed up and ready to go, and as I don’t value pugs over guildies we had more guildies in the group than we did pugs, and really he logged on late after I filled. If I truly value pugs over guildie the whole run would be pugs. Hell I wouldn’t schedule raids with guildies that want to get achievements or gear, I would just go join a pug. So that was his dealing this past two weeks.
Friday night I log on to get a raid together for those that were online and the first thing I see was him saying he doesn’t participate in Friday and Saturdays raid anymore, and I’m sure he wants people to ask him why so he can state that I don’t care about bringing in guildies. I say in guild that well I guess I’ll cancel raid cause I’m not doing things right or something to that point (I wished that I had screenshotted it) and he said “how about them packers” to diverge out of the subject and then whispers my husband something about me and does a little ^ pointing to what he said and acts like my husband is suppose to laugh with him about it. He also stated to my husband that he speaks how he feels which is not so cool at this point cause what this guy feel is just wanting to be a major douchebag. My husband logs off the game and comes in angry about it and I ask if he’s mad at me and he said no he’s more angry at the guy trying to get my husband to take his side on all this. My husband doesn’t take side cause if he takes one or the other someone is bound to not be happy. In this case the guy will never be happy unless my husband agrees with him. I could care less cause I speak for myself most of the time.
He’s been trying to play the troll and trying to get everyone to agree with him, and mostly wonders if my husband values his friendship. Honestly I want to say that this guy wants everyone to value his friendship, but he doesn’t seem to have consideration to do the same for anyone he is friends with and to me it just seems like he’s trying to cause a rift between me and my husband lately because of that “pug over guildie” incident. The fucked up thing about it is that when the guy logs off of wow, the people in wow disappears until he logs back on again. So he can piss someone off and just turn off his computer. When my husband logs off wow and the renewed guildie pisses me off my husband can’t get away from me. He lives with me, we sleep in the same bed together. This is something that guy doesn’t freaking get. If he values my husband’s friendship he wouldn’t or SHOULDN’T piss me off. Because that just causes stress to my husband aka HIS FRIEND, who happens to have to hold a full time job, worry about bills, car payments, if his wife is happy, and if his daughter will have a good day at school or not
He is acting like a high school girl wearing their heart on their sleeve and expressing his feelings about everything that he thinks is wrong to him. He is trying to start a revolution within the guild and trying to cause problems between me and my husband. Mainly trying to get my husband to agree that I am a bitch, and that I don’t give a shit about anyone else but myself and pugs.{start sarcasm} Cause clearly I play wow all day long and it has become my sole life and purpose to piss this guy off instead of me taking care of my family and doing other productive things like have a life. {end sarcasm}
Yes this is a rant and I’m probably being a drama queen myself, but had to get it off my chest for a bit. Sorry that it’s a long rant, but the change in the guy since I met him in BC until now is just so drastic because he use to be a good guy that didn’t care so much about a lot of stuff, just wanted to have fun. That all changed when he started the hardcore raiding and sad to say, he is acting like that person he dislike when he first moved over to the horde side. He may believe he doesn’t act like that but I see it and a couple of others have seen it and he has.